| 007: What was our deal anyway? Do a few people thoughtlessly make unnecessary work for you, not do what they agreed to do, or repeatedly interfere with your activities? Tell them, "I didn't understand our deal. Your behavior tells me that our deal is to do whatever we want to do. Now that I understand, I'll quit considering your feelings, your interests, and what you want. If you'd like to renegotiate our deal, I'm open to talking but not optimistic about the outcome." Now, keep the deal you just made. Being sure that deals are two-way-streets is an important way you take care of yourself on the high road. |
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   Simon On Success
Simon says, "Let's get a couple of things out in the open so you can get them behind you. Yes, it is possible to strike it rich, to have an inspiration for an invention making you famous while it makes your fortune, and maybe even to have a sudden insight leading you to the right end of the rainbow, pot of gold and all."
Sure, some lucky ducks were born with silver spoons in their mouths. In life's great poker game, some people get better cards than others. It is enough to make you just sit down and cry.
Before you drown in your tears, though, remember your good friend Simon did say instant success is possible, if all you want is money, status, or a free ride. The odds are not in your favor but it might happen. Hanging your future on it is a bit risky; but a possibility is still a possibility. If instead, you would rather hang your future on something a little more substantial, Simon has a suggestion for your thoughtful consideration:
•Cultivate your success.
"Give me more credit than that, Simon," you say. "Like you, I didn't just come into town on a load of logs. I've been there too. I know success isn't going to just drop into my lap out of the blue. I have to work for it and am certainly willing to do whatever it takes; but where do I start? How do I cultivate success?"
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